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Tuesday, March 31, 2009

MORE Happy Monday... Or more Easter...

Wee Little Melli
Easter 1960

Yesterday for Happy Monday our assignment was to tell an Easter memory - and I chose to go with my younger children's Easters. Then Hootin' Anni asked about Amanda's Easters when she was little, and I figured I might as well go all the way back if I'm going to tell it correctly. Sooooo... When I was a wee little peanut, Easter was ALL ABOUT CHURCH! We did (as you can see) get baskets filled with eggs, little fuzzy peeps, and always a chocolate bunny. And my mother was IN to stuffed animals, so I'm sure I always got one --- I don't know about the older kids -- but I was the baby and I was still getting a stuffed bunny when I was 10! (My mother LOVED holidays! Especially Easter!) But I especially remember the little fuzzy peeps! They came in pink and blue and purple and of course yellow! I loved them! But still... Easter was NOT about bunnies, and chicks and candy. It was about Jesus! Make no doubt about that! And any spoiling my mother did of us on Easter was DEFINITELY done to the glory of God!!! We knew exactly why we were celebrating! EVEN at 3 years old! We knew that Easter was no ordinary Sunday, and though we DID dress up for church on "ordinary" Sundays -- it was nothing like what we did on Easter! Easter was much more frilly and pretty and white gloves and patent leather shoes and most assuredly a beauuuuuutiful Easter bonnet! Where do you THINK I got my love of hats from??? I don't have very many childhood memories. I have blocked out so much more than I will EVER remember -- much of which I really do WISH I could get back sometimes. But I will tell you this... I remember dressing UP for Easter. And I remember dancing around -- not particularly in this dress above, but maybe by the next year... I remember crinolins (oh so itchy) that made my dress POOF out and I loved getting those new SHINY shoes that went tappity tappity tap! And I LOVED my little white gloves! And when I was verrrrry small -- about the age up there -- and maybe 2 more years beyond -- I LOVED going to church! I was way too little to be bored by it! And I was way to cute to not be the center of a LOT of attention! What was not to love!? And we attended St. Anne's Church on Wisconsin Ave. in Washington DC - which was a MAMMOTH (to me) stone church -- not stone like rocks -- stone like huge blocks - maybe it was all marble. I don't know. But I know I can when I close my eyes I can still smell that church! It smelled sooooo good! A mix of wood and cold, and incense! I always loved it! The inside walls were stone too -- and the floor was marble! Just the perfect floor for my tippity tappity shoes! I wish I had a picture of that church! I should drive down there and take one -- I hope it hasn't changed! I bet I couldn't get in... it's probably LOCKED all the time now.... I also wish I had a picture of ALL of us dressed up... but I don't remember ever even seeing one. But my brother had a new suit (navy or black) and 4 girls all in pretty dresses! (5 sisters - but the oldest was 24 when I was born, and married when I was 3! My oldest brother was already married even before that!) So off to church we would go, and I can remember sO well, being excited because Jesus was no longer covered up! Remember - the Catholic churches have a crucifix above the altar, not an empty cross. And during lent the cross was covered and we couldn't see Jesus. But on Easter Sunday the cloth was down and He was back!!! (still hanging on the cross... you know ... I don't think that made sense to me even back then...) But now that I look back, I am positive my mother MUST have pointed these things out to me and MADE a big deal about them! Or at the very least, she answered my bzillion questions! I don't remember my father ever telling me ANYthing about religion at all. I'm pretty sure he just went along with it all. Religion didn't play a part in his life until much later. So ... that's it. And then when we got home, first we had breakfast - we were Catholics - and back in those days you did not break fast until AFTER you had had Holy Communion. Way back then the mass was still said entirely in Latin too! English didn't come into the picture until I was around 6 or 7 -- and I remember there being a lot of scuttlebutt about it! A LOT of scuttlebutt! But after breakfast, then we got around to hunting for eggs! Now you know... I must have not cared much for egg hunts... I don't remember if we did them inside or out. I am sure that we did one! And I do know that we at least SOME years, if not every year, went down to the white house for the Easter Egg Roll! And I don't remember HUNTING eggs THERE either! But I definitely DO remember rolling them!!! LOL!

Wee Little Amanda!
Easter 1978

So, now you know how MY childhood Easter's were. And you've seen my younger children's Easters. I'm sure you can guess that Amanda's were a bit inbetween! By the time Amanda came along, not only were the masses said in English - but they had also worked all the way up to Children's Services! They of course, were a little later in the morning allowing families the extra time needed to "get it together". It was no longer a requirement that you not eat until after Communion, so most people who attended the Children's Service did indeed have breakfast before they went! And on Easter, most of them had already done their egg hunt too! Including US! Amanda was indeed dressed to the nine's -- although I admit the nine's no longer included little white gloves. And Amanda never had a handbag either. She was a neglected child! (and I was on welfare until she was 3!) But she had the basket, she had the candy, she had dyed eggs, and she EVEN had little fuzzy peeps! I couldn't believe they still HAD them - but Ben Franklin always did! No place else... just Ben Franklin! She was not as impressed with little fuzzy peeps as I was! She was much more impressed with marshmallow peeps! (GAG me!) She only thought they were yummy for a year or two.... all my kids had more sense than that! And my mother always had a stuffed animal for her! Now when Amanda was very small, I was not a "regular" church attendee. I was a Christmas and Easter attendee. SHE however, frequently went with my mother. Thankfully, MY mother was determined to save her little soul from HER heathen mother! I wish she had. It didn't work. I was attending regularly by the time she was 5 though -- and that was when Amanda was baptized! But back to Easter! HER Easters went like get up, squeal about her basket, find her eggs, count some, eat some, sort some, eat some more, get all dressed up, go to church, come home, eat some candy... and then go to whichever relative was hosting Easter that year for dinner. I was the youngest and the unmarried sibling, so I was never hosting! But one of my sisters always was, and we would go to their house where Amanda would meet up with all of her million cousins and play and play and play! Now, ya know what amazes me? We had allllllll those kids together at one time ON EASTER SUNDAY ... nobody ever organized an egg hunt! When Amanda was young she still had 6 cousins less than 10 years older than her -- and several more just over. It was kids kids kids when my family got together! It didn't matter. She always hunted at home, and she wasn't a big hunter anyway! As a matter of fact... one year when she was above Easter Bunny age, she asked if he would please NOT hide any. I refused! LOL! She was really GLAD to have a little brother come along! She was afraid SHE was going to have to hunt eggs for the rest of her life!!!

So that's it! Now you know more about ME and Easter than you ever wanted to! But the important thing to know about Me and Easter is that I enjoy it more NOW than I ever have in my life!

13 comment(s):

You've brought back memories of my tappity-tappity shoes! I loved dancing in my new white patent leather Easter shoes! Sadly, I never had white gloves, a hat, or a purse! Of course, I would have refused to wear them if I had, so what the heck!

By Anonymous quilly, at 3/31/2009 2:01 AM  

Darling shots and beautiful memories, Melli.
I grew up in a (very)Catholic country so Easter was all about mourning...It was not until I was an old teenager that the radio stations started playing regular music over Easter, before then it was all classicals, sad and dark. Plus it was down under but not Australia, lol, so it was the beginning of fall.
It became a whole new holiday for me as a young woman and because globalisation made the Easter bunny go to far away countries. Kids love it , of course. I love Easter colors and motifs, the beginning of Spring and all.
Enjoy the season, Melli!!!

By Blogger MaR, at 3/31/2009 2:46 AM  

Wow Melli...so nice. I think the "older" days were soooo magical.:)

By Anonymous Anonymous, at 3/31/2009 4:28 AM  

Love, love LOVE this post Melli. You poured your heart out. And you added a bit of your soul too. This was fabulous.

The pictures you scanned and shared, both adorable. And yes, I do remember those Latin sermons myself. Those were the days. And the part where you were the attention getter at church made me smile....why of course, the cuteness of you I know...you still are an attention getter...and that's a GOOD thing.

Stupendous. thanks so much for sharing it all with us. I so enjoyed it.

By Blogger Hootin Anni, at 3/31/2009 7:12 AM  

Love the pictures! My childhood Easters were much the same, except I don't remember crinolines (probably wore them, just don't remember) and we attended a Lutheran church then. My parents didn't go, but my grandfather and aunt took me. I do remember black shiny patent leather shoes! You describe them so well!

I don't remember big family get-togethers for meals, though, at Easter. Maybe we did in the early days -- just don't remember.

By Anonymous Barbara H., at 3/31/2009 9:13 AM  

Oh we had such wonderful family Easter's and Christmas' and I miss that. Now it is usually just Hubby and me and I'm sad that the family is disbursed all over the country.

By Blogger Maribeth, at 3/31/2009 9:16 AM  

I never had easter like you and I am 15 years older ! that sounds so old fashioned, white gloves and tappity tappity shoes. You had 5 sisters and one brother ?? Oh gosh that was really catholic ! Your description of Amanda with all her cousins sounds as if your parents wanted to increase the American population, lol !
We never went to church, not on Christmas and not on Easter. Sometimes I went to church with my parents but that was occasionally.
And it stopped completely when we moved to Brussels. At Easter I had a nice dress (mostly sent from my American aunt) and searched my eggs and then played with my friends with the eggs. There were a lot of games !

By Blogger Ingrid, at 3/31/2009 10:02 AM  

Little girls in Easter finery are so cute.

By Blogger Nessa, at 3/31/2009 10:27 AM  

Hey, cute Wee Little Melli ...

By Anonymous Blossom, at 3/31/2009 10:33 AM  

Melli.....yes the boat IS behind the man with the cane.

By Anonymous Hootin' Anni, at 3/31/2009 11:16 AM  

What I remember about Easter is that my grandmother always wanted her Spring cleaning to be over with ,and she had a new dress or something. And I remember vaguely about hidden eggs in the garden. And church in Latin, I remember that too!

By Blogger Jientje, at 3/31/2009 12:06 PM  

But are you sure you told us everything or are you hiding something.
I grew up in a Christmas and Easter home but they made us go to Sunday School every week in the Methodist Church. Grandparents had influence and they used it.
I found it interesting in reading your two days of Easter how much alike American Easter customs are. We all had and gave baskets, eggs, candy, and stuffed bunnies. It would be interesting to trace each of those customs back.

By Blogger Dr.John, at 3/31/2009 3:41 PM  

Oh Melli, that sure brings back memories! :-) The new dress, hat, shoes, bag and white gloves. That was so much fun! I remember feeling bad because I thought we were all dressing up, kind of party style and poor Jesus had to die because of us. Then when a little older, I got the celebration part of his coming back to life again. We went to a little, country Lutheran church.

I had the Easter basket, candy etc. And call me sensless, but I STILL LOVE marshmallow peeps. :-) I have some on the kitchen counter right now! By the way, did you know they cure hiccups? See, they're medicinal! :-)

By Anonymous Tootie, at 3/31/2009 11:44 PM  

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